CONTENTS : Aristotle's Challenge ix PART ONE THE EMOTIONAL BRAIN 1. What Are Emotions For? 3 2. Anatomy of an Emotional Hijacking 15 PART TWO THE NATURE OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE 3. When Smart Is Dumb 35 4. Know Thyself 50 5. Passion's Slaves 62 6. The Master Aptitude 88 7. The Roots of Empathy 109 8. The Social Arts 127 PART THREE EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE APPLIED 9. Intimate Enemies 147 10. Managing with Heart 169 11. Mind and Medicine 188 PART FOUR WINDOWS OF OPPORTUNITY 12. The Family Crucible 215 13. Trauma and Emotional Relearning 228 14. Temperament Is Not Destiny 246 PART FIVE EMOTIONAL LITERACY 15. The Cost of Emotional Illiteracy 265 16. Schooling the Emotions 300 Appendix A: What Is Emotion? 331 Appendix B: Hallmarks of the Emotional Mind 334 Appendix C: The Neural Circuitry of Fear 341 Appendix D: W. T. Grant Consortium: Active Ingredients of Prevention Programs 345 Appendix E: The Self Science Curriculum 347 Appendix F: Social and Emotional Learning: Results 349 Notes 355 Acknowledgments397 Index 399